We Were Thinking

Matt and Steve are a father and son duo who have 65 years of ministry experience between them. Matt has led worship in some capacity for 25 years and Steve has worked with students for more than 40 years. Join them as they discuss topics that cover everything from deconstructing your faith and ministry to marriage and parenting. Matt and Steve are story tellers and love to talk about their friendship as father and son (which, as you’ll hear, wasn’t always the case). Once a month or so they take time out to talk directly to ministers.

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Oct 26, 2026

28 min

In the last two episodes, Steve talked to men at a marriage event, talking them through the importance of kindness in marriage for men. Today, Steve talks to the ladies. Contact us at info@wewerethinking.org to tell us how your spouse has shown kindness in your relationship!
 
Intro Music: Wes Cepin
Outro Music: Matt Coleman

Oct 26, 2026

28 min

Oct 12, 2026

25 min

If you didn't listen to episode 61, you definitely want to check out it out first, as this is a part 2 to that one. Steve is speaking in a marriage class at his local church. The topic for this class was kindness in the marriage relationship from a man's perspective. 

Oct 12, 2026

25 min

Sep 28, 2026

28 min

Steve teaches a marriage class at his local church, speaking on kindness in the marriage relationship from a man's perspective. This one is full of practical ideas. You'll definitely want to make sure to listen to part 2 as well! 
 
 

Sep 28, 2026

28 min

Sep 14, 2026

33 min

This one's a fun one! The guys give some practical ideas on how to love on your wife (and some ideas for the ladies, too!). Sometimes we get into routines or just aren't thinking about how to go out of our way to show love to our spouses, so the guys are here to help! Join Matt & Steve as they talk about the practical side of doing the little things. 
 
Intro Music: Wes Cepin
Outro Music: Matt Coleman

Sep 14, 2026

33 min

Aug 31, 2026

31 min

Continuing the conversation from last time, Steve & Matt dig in to some scripture to talk about what it takes to be firm in our faith when the culture around us is changing. How do we, in love, make sure we are solid in what we believe? 
 
Intro Music: Wes Cepin
Outro Music: Matt Coleman

Aug 31, 2026

31 min

Aug 17, 2026

31 min

In a moment of honesty, Steve shares how temptation to compromise brought incredible clarity in his life. In a world where our culture is shifting constantly, how can we be sure that we don't drift with it? Today the guys talk about standing firm against culture change.
 
Intro Music: Wes Cepin
Outro Music: Matt Coleman

Aug 17, 2026

31 min