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Feb 23, 2026

34 min

Over the next three episodes, the guys take a look at what it means to be a man according to the scriptures. Steve and Matt unpack 1 Corinthians 13:11 and what it means to be a man. Matt also mentions the book The Intentional Father by Jon Tyson. 
 
Intro: Wes Cepin
Outro: Matt Coleman

Feb 23, 2026

34 min

Ep. 45 - Games!

Feb 9, 2026

Feb 9, 2026

33 min

Youth ministers sometimes get classified as glorified babysitters with games and pizza. While that isn't true AT ALL, there is a time and place for games. Join Steve and Matt as they talk about "Playing with Purpose." They give some practical advice, and even give some examples of games they've used over the years. Drop us an email at info@wewerethinking.org and tell us what games have made an impact in your youth ministry! 
 
Intro Music - Wes Cepin
Outro Music - Matt Coleman

Feb 9, 2026

33 min

Ep. 44 - Legacy

Jan 26, 2026

Jan 26, 2026

33 min

What legacy will you leave? How will you be remembered? Join Steve and Matt as they encourage you to, once again, "Start with the end in mind" when it comes to how you live your life. Remember, you have to start now to leave the legacy you want. The guys talk about an exercise to try to think about where you're heading. 
 
Intro Music - Wes Cepin
Outro Music - Matt Coleman

Jan 26, 2026

33 min

Jan 12, 2026

34 min

Steve once came across a phrase that he just couldn't shake. It was, "At it's core, Christianity is a counter-cultural, revolutionary movement." Today, the guys talk about what a revolution is, how Christianity is a revolution, and what that means for us in our personal walk today. 
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Opening Music - Wes Cepin
Closing Music - Matt Coleman

Jan 12, 2026

34 min

Dec 29, 2025

32 min

Do you ever find yourself making New Year's Resolutions every year, only to break them within the first few weeks? Do you get tired of that? Join the guys as they encourage you not to make a new resolution, but to change your mindset in how to focus in the new year when it comes to your walk with Christ. 
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Opening Music- Wes Cepin
Closing Music - Matt Coleman

Dec 29, 2025

32 min

Dec 14, 2025

37 min

For a very long time, churches have marked the progression of maturity in Christianity as regularly attending church > joining a small group > serving in the church. All of those are great, but they don't guarantee that you have matured, or that you're even a follower of Christ! Join Steve and Matt as they talk about the marks of a disciple, and they even offer some practical advice. 

Dec 14, 2025

37 min

Nov 30, 2025

36 min

This is one of our most requested topics. Steve was featured in an article for The Christian Index (https://christianindex.org/stories/high-school-seminary-striking-early-morning-chord-in-kentucky,32295) where they talked about something he started several years ago. Calling it High School Seminary, Steve challenged his students to stop living from camp high to camp high and get serious about their faith. What followed became an incredible experience where students were challenged in their faith; they even had to write papers about it! Join the guys as they talk about this unique idea that wasn't the start of a program, but a stoking of the fires.

Nov 30, 2025

36 min

Nov 16, 2025

31 min

Concluding the three-part series on living out the marriage vows, Steve and Matt Talk about the last section "to love and to cherish" and "until death do us part." Make sure to listen to the other episodes first to catch up before diving into part 3. 
 
Intro Music: Wes Cepin
Outro Music: Matt Coleman

Nov 16, 2025

31 min

Nov 2, 2025

33 min

We said this would be a two-parter, but there was just too much to cover! If you didn't catch the first episode, make sure you listen to it first. The guys are going through the traditional marriage vows and how to live them out through the duration of your marriage. This episode, Steve and Matt focus in on "for richer for poorer" and "in sickness and in health." 
 
Intro Music: Wes Cepin
Outro Music: Matt coleman

Nov 2, 2025

33 min

Oct 19, 2025

34 min

Steve and Sula spoke at a marriage event, and talked about the seasons of marriage. Join Steve and Matt as they discuss the traditional wedding vows, and the importance of upholding those throughout every stage of life. This turned into a 3 part conversation. Today they focus in on "to have and to hold from this day forward" and "for better, for worse". 
 
Intro Music: Wes Cepin
Outro Music: Matt Coleman

Oct 19, 2025

34 min

Oct 5, 2025

30 min

We felt like we had to weigh in on Charlie Kirk's death and the cultural reaction to it. Bear in mind: THIS IS NOT A POLITICAL EPISODE. We take a look at what people have said about him for good and ill, but our focus is not on Charlie Kirk but on Jesus Christ. This is in no way a praise session for a person, political leaning or ideology, nor is it a slamming session. 
 
Intro Music: Wes Cepin
Outro Music: Matt Coleman

Oct 5, 2025

30 min

Sep 22, 2025

34 min

There are 5 areas of the New Testament church are Evangelism, Worship, Discipleship, Missions/Ministry, & Fellowship/Outreach. Steve and Matt discuss what each of these mean, and why they are important to every member of the church, not just ministers. Don't forget to drop us a line at info@wewerethinking.org
 
Intro Music: Wes Cepin
Outro Music: Matt Coleman

Sep 22, 2025

34 min

Sep 8, 2025

40 min

This is the second installment of the breakout session Steve taught during the Conclave conference in Chattanooga, Tennessee in January 2025. If you missed the first part, make sure to listen to it first. This one is full of great practical advice for young youth ministers who are early in their career. 
 
Intro music: Wes Cepin
Outro music: Matt Coleman

Sep 8, 2025

40 min

Sep 1, 2025

43 min

In January of 2025, Steve was able to speak at the Conclave conference. In a breakout session designed for new youth ministers, he spoke about what he has experienced in Youth ministry and a shared a wealth of information. If you're looking for practical advice in youth ministry this pair of episodes are for you! 
 
Intro music: Wes Cepin
Outro music: Matt coleman

Sep 1, 2025

43 min

Ep. 32 - UPDATES!

Aug 18, 2025

Aug 18, 2025

29 min

It's been a hot minute since Steve and Matt got behind the mics. Tune in to find out why. But rest assured, we're back! 
 
Intro music: Wes Cepin
Outro Music: Matt Coleman

Aug 18, 2025

29 min